Do guys really get raped by women ?

[Jack Mehoff]

I was talking about this with my wife.

I just don't see how a guy can get raped.

Just think if some ugly girl knocked you over with a beer bottle and then started to suck you off. Would you tell her to stop ? No matter how ugly the girl, I think the guy would enjoy it.

What do you think ?

[MolliG]

Yes. ****** acts you don't want, which are forced on to you = rape. If the above happened to me I wouldn't be very happy, I don't know if I'd report it to the Police though, I would of course report the GBH though!...

Hmmm...

[Elmo]

What if you get knocked out and you wake up blind-folded and someone is sucking you off? Wouldn't you get excited in that case too?

[Seoulstriker]

the definition of rape includes any ****** activity while one is drunk. The inhibited judgement and having *** is considered rape, and yes, men do get raped. But the alcohol in their systems do not allow for sustained erection, however.

[hank]

the definition of rape includes any ****** activity while one is drunk. The inhibited judgement and having *** is considered rape, and yes, men do get raped. But the alcohol in their systems do not allow for sustained erection, however.

What "definition" are you referring to? Like a legal definition?

hank

[Jack Mehoff]

What if you get knocked out and you wake up blind-folded and someone is sucking you off? Wouldn't you get excited in that case too?

Stick to the topic please. This is about women raped men.

[Midtown]

I passed out and had a girl I knew **** me while I was out. She was cute and all. I didnt belive that it happened till my friends showed me the pictures. Nothing like hardcore **** of a hot girl and a passed out guy.
I'm still pissed about not being awake for it.

[Seoulstriker]

the definition of rape includes any ****** activity while one is drunk. The inhibited judgement and having *** is considered rape, and yes, men do get raped. But the alcohol in their systems do not allow for sustained erection, however.

What "definition" are you referring to? Like a legal definition?

hank
yeah, legal definition. is that right, mr. law? :)

[Seoulstriker]

I passed out and had a girl I knew f*** me while I was out. She was cute and all. I didnt belive that it happened till my friends showed me the pictures. Nothing like hardcore **** of a hot girl and a passed out guy.
I'm still pissed about not being awake for it.

pics or it didn't happen. :P

[Midtown]

Do you really want to see a picture of my **** in some girl? if so, then Im probably more scared of you than I am fat women.

[EvanL]

Do you really want to see a picture of my **** in some girl? if so, then Im probably more scared of you than I am fat women.
This type of behaviour is nothing new from Striker. He has proved his ****** preferences in the past.

[Stavka]

A couple of years ago 2 women were convicted of rape.

They drugged a guy in a bar, dragged him home, strapped him down on the bed and forcefed him tonnes of Viagra. The guy passed out, but "genetic sampling" proved that the ladies had indeed raped him...

[Seoulstriker]

joke, guys, joke. :| :roll:

[Trigger]

HELEX was raped by a girl...She used an ax handle and some broken glass for lube.

[EvanL]

HELEX was raped by a girl...She used an ax handle and some broken glass for lube.
i heard it was a rusty pipe.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Midtown]

hahahaha tjat was actully pretty ****ing funny1!

[Trigger]

i heard it was a rusty pipe.
http://www.shunchang.com.cn/images/dkbwg.JPG

I don't know about the rust, but it was 'ribbed for his pleasure'. p-)

[hank]

the definition of rape includes any ****** activity while one is drunk. The inhibited judgement and having *** is considered rape, and yes, men do get raped. But the alcohol in their systems do not allow for sustained erection, however.

What "definition" are you referring to? Like a legal definition?

hank
yeah, legal definition. is that right, mr. law? :)

Sorry seoul, that kind of sounded like I was jumping on you. Not inteded. Answer is it depends, each state is different. If consent is a component of the statute then you might have a point. That would be odd because it would in effect put the burden on the accused to show that the victim intended to consent or not to consent. The more normal situation for a rape statute is non consensual but the non-consent burden is on the state. Does that make sense? If mere alcohol use was enough to destroy all informed consent in all cases then every man or woman who has to much to drink and does it would = rape and that is not the case.

Now, passed out would be a different matter. But just drunk usually would not work.

For example, TN's rape law requires the raper to know of the lack of consent. But, a following section says that if fraud is used to gain the *** then its rape. Also, "mentally defective" can destroy consent, but only if the raper knows. Result of all of this is that just being drunk is not enough, by itself, to meet most rape definitions. So, if you slip someone a drug and then *** them up the consent element is gone b/c you used fraud to make it happen. But without fraund the state will have to prove that the victim did not consent and that the raper knew of the lack of consent. This is common, though no universal.

Now somebody will go and find an exception and that is OK. I'm generalizing. Strictly speaking the answer to Jack's ? legally is yes. Men get raped if they do not consent and the woman knows of hte lack of consent. However, practically I see the problem b/c men can't perform without arousal and there is some compliance nad possibly even consent involved in that.

hank

[Seoulstriker]

Sorry seoul, that kind of sounded like I was jumping on you. Not inteded. Answer is it depends, each state is different. If consent is a component of the statute then you might have a point. That would be odd because it would in effect put the burden on the accused to show that the victim intended to consent or not to consent. The more normal situation for a rape statute is non consensual but the non-consent burden is on the state. Does that make sense? If mere alcohol use was enough to destroy all informed consent in all cases then every man or woman who has to much to drink and does it would = rape and that is not the case.

Now, passed out would be a different matter. But just drunk usually would not work.

For example, TN's rape law requires the raper to know of the lack of consent. But, a following section says that if fraud is used to gain the *** then its rape. Also, "mentally defective" can destroy consent, but only if the raper knows. Result of all of this is that just being drunk is not enough, by itself, to meet most rape definitions. So, if you slip someone a drug and then *** them up the consent element is gone b/c you used fraud to make it happen. But without fraund the state will have to prove that the victim did not consent and that the raper knew of the lack of consent. This is common, though no universal.

Now somebody will go and find an exception and that is OK. I'm generalizing. Strictly speaking the answer to Jack's ? legally is yes. Men get raped if they do not consent and the woman knows of hte lack of consent. However, practically I see the problem b/c men can't perform without arousal and there is some compliance nad possibly even consent involved in that.

hank

ahhhh, thanks for the great answer. i know that at least in illinois, it's not rape if both people are not drunk and they consent. everything else is considered rape. :|

[EvanL]

i heard it was a rusty pipe.
http://www.shunchang.com.cn/images/dkbwg.JPG

I don't know about the rust, but it was 'ribbed for his pleasure'. p-)
Was it the black one there? p-)

[Kenshin]

i heard it was a rusty pipe.
http://www.shunchang.com.cn/images/dkbwg.JPG

I don't know about the rust, but it was 'ribbed for his pleasure'. p-)

rofl

[Fintin]

an old neighbor of mine was a lawyer for a hospital...a guy was sueing after his surgery to remove a broken refidgerator balb caused an infection....the suet was dropped....

[Trigger]

EvanLloyd wrote:

Was it the black one there?
Yeah, it was the biggest one they had and it was still like throwing a hotdog down a hallway... p-)

[Fintin]

EvanLloyd wrote:

Was it the black one there?
Yeah, it was the biggest one they had and it was still like throwing a hotdog down a hallway... p-)


HAHAHAHAHAHA...

[Herrmannek]

Get me decent women and I will sacrifice to answer that question... :)

[Marmot1]

AFAIK in British Law rape can be commited only by a male and ******l penetration by ***** is required to constitute a rape also ****** contact with minor under 13 is always even with consent

In poland basicaly it can be man or woman and there must be lack of consent at one side aditionally there must be some kind of penetration not necesirelly by ***** (i.e finger) and not exactly ******l ( i.e. anal) to constitute rape, otherwise it is rape atempt, or ****** assault depending on circumstances...


I think I was once raped by two girls since I was to drunk to express consent... and they got me... Hopefully they were so cute that I was rather happy to be a victim :lol: (Both were skiny - one blondee, one brunette - just to prevent stupid jokes ;) )

[hank]

AFAIK in British Law rape can be commited only by a male and ******l penetration by ***** is required to constitute a rape also ****** contact with minor under 13 is always even with consent

In poland basicaly it can be man or woman and there must be lack of consent at one side aditionally there must be some kind of penetration not necesirelly by ***** (i.e finger) and not exactly ******l ( i.e. anal) to constitute rape, otherwise it is rape atempt, or ****** assault depending on circumstances...

I think I was once raped by two girls since I was to drunk to express consent... and they got me... Hopefully they were so cute that I was rather happy to be a victim :lol: (Both were skiny - one blondee, one brunette - just to prevent stupid jokes ;) )

In the US, unwanted blowjobs and anal *** aren't always rape either they are forcible sodomy in many states. Good point, I should have thought of that.


Get me decent women and I will sacrifice to answer that question...

That's big of you, Kerrmannek. I'll send Rosanne Barr right over to test the theory! :D

hank

[Nawlins]

I think it is absolutely possible for a man to be raped by a woman. And I disagree with Hank... I think it's possible to be aroused by stimulation even if you do not consent to ****** activity. You only have to say "no" once for it to be non-consensual. I know it's extremely rare, but I think it can happen.

[Herrmannek]

I think it is absolutely possible for a man to be raped by a woman. And I disagree with Hank... I think it's possible to be aroused by stimulation even if you do not consent to ****** activity. You only have to say "no" once for it to be non-consensual. I know it's extremely rare, but I think it can happen.

Be carefull with Poles Nawlins..here "no" means yes :)

[molly747]

I've had this talk soooo many times with guy friends. One friend claims that a man can never be taken advantage of by a woman, because men always want ***, no matter the circumstances. To him, it's a matter of principle. I disagree. I think a woman CAN take advantage of a man. Men can develop emotional attachments, too. I've had girl friends hook up with guys (with a one-nighter in mind). The guys call afterwards, and she's not interested. He feels used. Depends on the guy, I guess. I know guys that would take any form of ***, no matter what the circumstances. I also know other guys that won't sleep with women unless they are involved in a relationship or married. Rape is a different story, though. Honestly, I can't see how a woman can force herself on a man against his will. I've never heard of it. Can you you 'keep it up' under that kind of stress? Also, in general, men have greater upper body strength, so they can defend themselves. I'm sure there are some circumstances where this has happened, though. Rape is about power, not ***.

[Marmot1]

I remember 2 years ago a guy in Warsaw reported to police that he was raped by 2 womens...

[hank]

I think it is absolutely possible for a man to be raped by a woman. And I disagree with Hank... I think it's possible to be aroused by stimulation even if you do not consent to ****** activity. You only have to say "no" once for it to be non-consensual. I know it's extremely rare, but I think it can happen.

I agree with that Nawlins. I'm just sayin it is a little different for men b/c arousal will happen at times when consent is absent. In those cases rape is possible for men. But, if arousal is impossible and the law requires that a ***** penetrate a ****** (like it does in TN) then rape may not be possible. It still might be illegal as ****** assault or something else but the lack of an erection might make rape impossible. Does that make sense?

The difference is that as far as the ****** act is concerned consent is irrelevant when a man rapes a woman. Man with erection and the strenght to force his will on a woman will make arousal/lack of arousal irrelevant.

I think Jack's point was the one that molly747 made and I, too, disagree with that as do you and molly747. Nonconsent is the key. If a man does not consent and the elements of rape are met then it is rape. Agreed.

hank

[hank]

I've had this talk soooo many times with guy friends. One friend claims that a man can never be taken advantage of by a woman, because men always want ***, no matter the circumstances. To him, it's a matter of principle. I disagree. I think a woman CAN take advantage of a man. Men can develop emotional attachments, too. I've had girl friends hook up with guys (with a one-nighter in mind). The guys call afterwards, and she's not interested. He feels used. Depends on the guy, I guess. I know guys that would take any form of ***, no matter what the circumstances. I also know other guys that won't sleep with women unless they are involved in a relationship or married. Rape is a different story, though. Honestly, I can't see how a woman can force herself on a man against his will. I've never heard of it. Can you you 'keep it up' under that kind of stress? Also, in general, men have greater upper body strength, so they can defend themselves. I'm sure there are some circumstances where this has happened, though. Rape is about power, not ***.

good points, molly747. As Nawlins pointed out lack of consent is the hallmark of rape. I have pushed us off course with legal definitions and other stuff, but you guys are both right. Non-consensual ****** activity is certainly criminal even if not properly characterized as rape.

BTW ms. hank and I move to ATL next week. Going to live in Decatur.

hank

[California Joe]

Sounds like Jack's been having strap on fantasies.

Hank and Nawlins got it right. Hell when you're a teenager a good stiff breeze will give you wood. You could still refuse consent.

[Nawlins]

I've had this talk soooo many times with guy friends. One friend claims that a man can never be taken advantage of by a woman, because men always want ***, no matter the circumstances. To him, it's a matter of principle. I disagree. I think a woman CAN take advantage of a man. Men can develop emotional attachments, too. I've had girl friends hook up with guys (with a one-nighter in mind). The guys call afterwards, and she's not interested. He feels used. Depends on the guy, I guess. I know guys that would take any form of ***, no matter what the circumstances. I also know other guys that won't sleep with women unless they are involved in a relationship or married. Rape is a different story, though. Honestly, I can't see how a woman can force herself on a man against his will. I've never heard of it. Can you you 'keep it up' under that kind of stress? Also, in general, men have greater upper body strength, so they can defend themselves. I'm sure there are some circumstances where this has happened, though. Rape is about power, not ***.

good points, molly747. As Nawlins pointed out lack of consent is the hallmark of rape. I have pushed us off course with legal definitions and other stuff, but you guys are both right. Non-consensual ****** activity is certainly criminal even if not properly characterized as rape.

BTW ms. hank and I move to ATL next week. Going to live in Decatur.

hank

Agreed. Good luck with the move!

[hank]

Sounds like Jack's been having strap on fantasies.

Hank and Nawlins got it right. Hell when you're a teenager a good stiff breeze will give you wood. You could still refuse consent.

Good to see you CJ. Stiff breeze, indeed. I'm 33 and married with a newborn and a stiff breeze might actually get the job done these days. Wait 6 weeks, oh my God!

Thanks Nawlins.

hank

[Seoulstriker]

thanks for your perspectives, guys.



and welcome back, Molly! :)

[memphiz]

It isnt rape if you liked it ;)

Being raped by a hot chick would be cool :D

[Nawlins]

It isnt rape if you liked it ;)

Being raped by a hot chick would be cool :D

Don't be a dumbass. It's possible to feel physical pleasure but the fact is if you said no it's still rape. I hate when guys say that.

[molly747]

I think the most interesting thing about this conversation is the general public's attitude towards men and ***. That, somehow, it is strange and weird that a woman could be forceful and a man could be harmed ******ly. We have no problem thinking the other way. It's interesting to see society's reaction towards this kind of topic.

BTW, if you're coming to Atlanta, get ready for the traffic.

[Nawlins]

I think the most interesting thing about this conversation is the general public's attitude towards men and ***. That, somehow, it is strange and weird that a woman could be forceful and a man could be harmed ******ly. We have no problem thinking the other way. It's interesting to see society's reaction towards this kind of topic.


Yeah, I thought it was interesting to see that some people thought it wasn't possible.

[California Joe]

No means NO. Words to live by.

[Nawlins]

No means NO. Words to live by.

A thousand times amen.

[farmgirl]

Sounds like Jack's been having strap on fantasies.

Hank and Nawlins got it right. Hell when you're a teenager a good stiff breeze will give you wood. You could still refuse consent.

Good to see you CJ. Stiff breeze, indeed. I'm 33 and married with a newborn and a stiff breeze might actually get the job done these days. Wait 6 weeks, oh my God!

Thanks Nawlins.

hank


talk to me when it's been three years. 6 weeks is child's play! :roll:

[farmgirl]

I passed out and had a girl I knew f*** me while I was out. She was cute and all. I didnt belive that it happened till my friends showed me the pictures. Nothing like hardcore **** of a hot girl and a passed out guy.
I'm still pissed about not being awake for it.



classy group you hang with there midtown. Not only did your "friends" allow a chick to take advantage of you while you were passed out, they took pictures to document the occasion. With friends like those.... :roll:

[memphiz]

It isnt rape if you liked it ;)

Being raped by a hot chick would be cool :D

Don't be a dumbass. It's possible to feel physical pleasure but the fact is if you said no it's still rape. I hate when guys say that.
Ok sorry....I mean that in a guys case ;)(guy being raped by women) ....guys that rape women are sick f**ks

[California Joe]

Usually they just shave all his bodyhair, draw on him with Sharpies and stick cocktail carrots in his ass.

[Jack Mehoff]

sooooooo.......any girls here want to molest an innocent 14 year old boy?
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[Herrmannek]

No means NO. Words to live by.

A thousand times amen.

American went to Poland on a trip. He wanted to know how to get to some location so he started to ask bypassers with his broken polish If he is going in good direction. He asked man passing by and got answer "Yes"; but he wasn't sure so he asked another person and got answer "No", litle confused he asked yet another person and got answer "Tak(Yes in polish)"...He was almost sure he is going in good direction, but he saw policeman and asked him about that confusion...
Policeman said: You know how it is:
People without education ussualy say "No" to confirm,
People after higschool use word "Tak",
And People with degree will use word "Yes"
I supose you have degee? asked american
No answered policeman

[Marmot1]

No means NO. Words to live by.

A thousand times amen.

American went to Poland on a trip. He wanted to know how to get to some location so he started to ask bypassers with his broken polish If he is going in good direction. He asked man passing by and got answer "Yes"; but he wasn't sure so he asked another person and got answer "No", litle confused he asked yet another person and got answer "Tak(Yes in polish)"...He was almost sure he is going in good direction, but he saw policeman and asked him about that confusion...
Policeman said: You know how it is:
People without education ussualy say "No" to confirm,
People after higschool use word "Tak",
And People with degree will use word "Yes"
I supose you have degee? asked american
No answered policeman

No fajny dowcip herrmanek... :-)

[ßå$tĮТHÏ¿ð]

I've had a few times were I've had *** with girls and I wasnt really consenting...it was more "taking one for the team" ;) Does that count?

[caspermeister]

Beware What You Wished For.
http://us.news2.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/p/ap/20040501/capt.wakh20505011837.female_***_offender_wakh205.jpg


Lone female *** predator prepares for move to men's facility

GIG HARBOR, Wash. (AP) — For the past six years, convicted child rapist Laura Faye McCollum has lived a lonely existence inside the state's women's prison.

On Monday, she is scheduled to move to the new Special Commitment Center on McNeil Island to live among 190 other dangerous *** offenders — all of them men.

McCollum is worried about attending therapy sessions with the men, and many experts say treating offenders of both genders together could be harmful.

"Would you want to sit in a bunch of men who talk about what they did to women and how they'd like to do that to women again?" McCollum told The Associated Press in a three-hour interview from her housing unit at the women's center. "I don't want them bringing their issues on me."

[Universal]

A woman will not rape an adult male, its too risky, when females rape males, they're probably young boys. Or the only other possibility of men getting raped is well, by other men.

A woman will not rape an adult male, its too risky, when females rape males, they're probably young boys. Or the only other possibility of men getting raped is well, by other men.

yeah, like how Woman teachers take their 14 year old students to las vegas and **** them like there was no tomorrow.... :lol:

[Steve Railsback]

Beware What You Wished For.
http://us.news2.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/p/ap/20040501/capt.wakh20505011837.female_***_offender_wakh205.jpg


Lone female *** predator prepares for move to men's facility

GIG HARBOR, Wash. (AP) — For the past six years, convicted child rapist Laura Faye McCollum has lived a lonely existence inside the state's women's prison.

On Monday, she is scheduled to move to the new Special Commitment Center on McNeil Island to live among 190 other dangerous *** offenders — all of them men.

McCollum is worried about attending therapy sessions with the men, and many experts say treating offenders of both genders together could be harmful.

"Would you want to sit in a bunch of men who talk about what they did to women and how they'd like to do that to women again?" McCollum told The Associated Press in a three-hour interview from her housing unit at the women's center. "I don't want them bringing their issues on me."




She's not a woman!!!

Shenanigan!!!!! SHENANIGAN!!!!

[mocking_loudly_died]

When I was 14 I wanted hot female teachers molesting me. Long live Miss timber **** (science became interesting).

Females raping males....don't make me laugh.

[perdurabo]

No means NO. Words to live by.

A thousand times amen.

American went to Poland on a trip. He wanted to know how to get to some location so he started to ask bypassers with his broken polish If he is going in good direction. He asked man passing by and got answer "Yes"; but he wasn't sure so he asked another person and got answer "No", litle confused he asked yet another person and got answer "Tak(Yes in polish)"...He was almost sure he is going in good direction, but he saw policeman and asked him about that confusion...
Policeman said: You know how it is:
People without education ussualy say "No" to confirm,
People after higschool use word "Tak",
And People with degree will use word "Yes"
I supose you have degee? asked american
No answered policeman

No fajny dowcip herrmanek... :-)
so lets explain that in Polish NO is yes in rude way.