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black mamba
08-24-2009, 06:02 PM
MUMBAI, India (CNN) -- Dressed in fancy clothes, she applies eye liner, dabs her nose with a powder puff and the director shouts, "Silence, rolling!"


Avika Gor, who plays child bride Anandi in the popular but controversial show.

On cue, the star of the show delivers her lines. Meet Anandi, the main character of "Balika Vadhu," an Indian television serial. Twelve-year-old Anandi is a child bride who was married off at the age of eight. She now lives with her husband and in-laws, bound by customs and traditions in their home.

The daily soap is just over a year old and already one of India's most highly rated TV shows. An estimated 74 million people watched it in July.

The CEO of Colors, the channel the show airs on, says viewers love it because it's based on reality.

Rajesh Kamat said: "There is enough research on child marriage, the evils of child marriage. We've based our storyline on that."

Kamat added the concept the show was based on is very much real and most of the incidents depicted in the program still happen in parts of India.

Even though the Indian legal age for marriage is 18 for girls and 21 for boys, the law is often ignored.

Since it's an illegal act, it's very hard to find a record of how many child marriages take place -- but according to UNICEF, 40 percent of all child marriages in the world take place in India.

Critics of "Balika Vadhu" say the premise -- that child marriage takes place in India -- is the only real aspect of the show.

The driving force behind child marriage is poverty, says Puja Marwaha, of the children's charity Child Rights and You. She says child brides are often illiterate, malnourished, considered a burden on their parents -- and their lives bear no resemblance to the glossy images seen on TV.

According to Marwaha, the serial glorifies child marriage. "To show it as harmless, is a problem."

"Poverty is not pretty so the child is not going to be wearing party frocks and looking pretty, contented and happy because that's not what really happens. What really happens is the child is forced into adult responsibilities too early. Whether it's the responsibility of motherhood or whether it's linked to abuse, as is the case many times."

That, according to Marwaha, is the reality of child marriage.

The people behind the show say its goal is not to glamorize child marriage -- but to highlight its dark side.

Kamat said: "Have we depicted it in a way that is entertaining? Yes. Is the evil of child marriage highlighted? Yes. Are the evils associated with it highlighted? Absolutely."

In between takes on the set of the show just outside Mumbai, Avika Gor, who plays Anandi, does her part to educate the audience.

"I feel very bad about what's happening to Anandi. Child marriage is very, very, very, very, very, very, very bad."


Some Indian lawmakers argued the show violated the Indian Constitution and demanded the show be banned.

The government looked into it and gave it a clean chit, so the cameras continue to roll on the sets, and the show goes on.

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/08/19/india.tv/index.html

[ KOOSHAB ]
08-24-2009, 08:46 PM
1) The Unicef study wasn't able to get the numbers for a good deal of countries which included:
certain South American, Arabian, Iran, and Asian countries - specifically China and Saudi Arabia.

2) This is common in countries that are still mostly agrarian, as India modernizes this problem will gradually reduces - that is unless said country is an Conservative Islamic state (but that's another issue.)

Skutatos
08-24-2009, 08:52 PM
;4362799']1) The Unicef study wasn't able to get the numbers for a good deal of countries which included:
certain South American, Arabian, Iran, and Asian countries - specifically China and Saudi Arabia.

2) This is common in countries that are still mostly agrarian, as India modernizes this problem will gradually reduces - that is unless said country is an Conservative Islamic state (but that's another issue.)

A good post by someone obviously familiar with cultural anthropology.

2495
08-24-2009, 09:39 PM
It started with a dead dog, escalated into a tit-for-tat tribal war, and has now reached a grotesque climax with the exchange of 15 child brides.
Pakistani human rights activists are outraged at reports that a long-running blood feud in a remote corner of western Baluchistan province has been resolved by the handing over of 15 girls, aged between three and 10, for marriage.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2008/jun/05/pakistan.humanrights



A similar wedlock took place some 10 years ago, except there was no police intervention. Shahzadi was sold off to her husband, a 40-year-old widower, when she was not even 11. "Working as a housemaid from the age of nine, I thought life after marriage would be better as I'd be rid of my alcoholic father," said Shahzadi, now 21.
She couldn't have been more mistaken. Since marriage, her life has been one long struggle. Unlettered Sahibzadi belongs to a remote village in Sanghar district, 300 kilomteres from Karachi, in Sindh. She says her husband paid off her father's loan in exchange for her hand.

http://newsblaze.com/story/20090602104634iwfs.nb/topstory.html


Egypt, Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Ethiopia, Pakistan, India, and the Middle East: In the rural villages of these countries many young girls are rarely allowed out of their homes unless it is to work in the fields or to get married.
These uneducated girls are often married off at the young age of 11. Some families allow girls who are only 7 years old to marry. It is very unusual for a girl to reach the age of 16 and not be married.

When I was at University first time round, I did an essay for my childhood health module based on children being sold into marriage. I got a A+ for it, but in the notes on the markers sheet was written 'Please do not keep this work, as it is very depressing and made me whilst marking it very ill. Not suitable reading inside your portfolio for those unaware of the content'.

Kiddie marriages are sick fvcks, and those who condone it are straight out of the dark ages. I won't even start about the Arabs who go to India, pakistan and Afghanistan to buy kids.

acosta
08-25-2009, 12:59 AM
i know most chinese posters are so reluctant in india-related threads, maybe just for avoiding indian style dogfight.

but why you guys always brought china in? this is really brainfart.


;4362799']1) The Unicef study wasn't able to get the numbers for a good deal of countries which included:
certain South American, Arabian, Iran, and Asian countries - specifically China and Saudi Arabia.


child brides thing just don't happen in china, it was even rare through china's long histroy. check out anything afront you, mr.agrarian?

khalsa1699
08-25-2009, 04:46 AM
MUMBAI, India (CNN) -- Dressed in fancy clothes, she applies eye liner, dabs her nose with a powder puff and the director shouts, "Silence, rolling!"


Avika Gor, who plays child bride Anandi in the popular but controversial show.

On cue, the star of the show delivers her lines. Meet Anandi, the main character of "Balika Vadhu," an Indian television serial. Twelve-year-old Anandi is a child bride who was married off at the age of eight. She now lives with her husband and in-laws, bound by customs and traditions in their home.

The daily soap is just over a year old and already one of India's most highly rated TV shows. An estimated 74 million people watched it in July.

The CEO of Colors, the channel the show airs on, says viewers love it because it's based on reality.

Rajesh Kamat said: "There is enough research on child marriage, the evils of child marriage. We've based our storyline on that."

Kamat added the concept the show was based on is very much real and most of the incidents depicted in the program still happen in parts of India.

Even though the Indian legal age for marriage is 18 for girls and 21 for boys, the law is often ignored.

Since it's an illegal act, it's very hard to find a record of how many child marriages take place -- but according to UNICEF, 40 percent of all child marriages in the world take place in India.

Critics of "Balika Vadhu" say the premise -- that child marriage takes place in India -- is the only real aspect of the show.

The driving force behind child marriage is poverty, says Puja Marwaha, of the children's charity Child Rights and You. She says child brides are often illiterate, malnourished, considered a burden on their parents -- and their lives bear no resemblance to the glossy images seen on TV.

According to Marwaha, the serial glorifies child marriage. "To show it as harmless, is a problem."

"Poverty is not pretty so the child is not going to be wearing party frocks and looking pretty, contented and happy because that's not what really happens. What really happens is the child is forced into adult responsibilities too early. Whether it's the responsibility of motherhood or whether it's linked to abuse, as is the case many times."

That, according to Marwaha, is the reality of child marriage.

The people behind the show say its goal is not to glamorize child marriage -- but to highlight its dark side.

Kamat said: "Have we depicted it in a way that is entertaining? Yes. Is the evil of child marriage highlighted? Yes. Are the evils associated with it highlighted? Absolutely."

In between takes on the set of the show just outside Mumbai, Avika Gor, who plays Anandi, does her part to educate the audience.

"I feel very bad about what's happening to Anandi. Child marriage is very, very, very, very, very, very, very bad."


Some Indian lawmakers argued the show violated the Indian Constitution and demanded the show be banned.

The government looked into it and gave it a clean chit, so the cameras continue to roll on the sets, and the show goes on.

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/08/19/india.tv/index.html

its good that you pointed out the evils present in the indian society.

also please note that steps have been taken to eradicate such evils from the indian society and villagers and other places where such acts take place, impartation of education as well as spreading the negetive impacts of such child marriages are being told to the people.

lots of NGO, govt organisation as well as UN is contributing towards this process of making people aware of the eradication.

ggk
08-25-2009, 04:54 AM
i believe we can discuss this maturedly without 'this' vesus 'that'. Kooshab have a good point there. Can we have a link or source of these study?

[ KOOSHAB ]
08-25-2009, 04:27 PM
i know most chinese posters are so reluctant in india-related threads, maybe just for avoiding indian style dogfight.

but why you guys always brought china in? this is really brainfart.
child brides thing just don't happen in china, it was even rare through china's long histroy. check out anything afront you, mr.agrarian?

I'm just pointing this out, I wasn't making it exclusive to China only
nor was I detracting from the fact that India culture partakes in child-marriage.

I will also make a note that certain provinces, ex Sichuan, banned child marriages
during the 1500s and were strengthened through the creation of the People's Republic.

- My point was that it does happen in China; I'm not debating the extent but rather the figures
(As Unicef lumped nations which don't practice child marriage with nations that statistics were unavailable)