"My" Ex just called me

[EvanL]

My ex as of last friday just called me when i was sittingi n the car at a parking lot. I dont know why. She didnt have anything to tell me.
But its weird. Cus she was up here for sunday night and monday mornign. and didnt call me once. And now that shes back in brooklyn she calls me. Im getting such mixed signals. And now even worse, im starting to miss her.
WOmen....Natures Rubix Cube

[Fintin]

masterbate then stick your we we in the blender...

[EvanL]

Thanks.. Just the advice i was looking for., :cantbeli:

[Fintin]

i dont know...from the sounds of it...yall really didnt need to break up...maybe she is relizing that...

[EvanL]

Well.. She seemed pretty serious about wanting to break up.
And this is whats confusing me.
Why call? Why now?
We still want to be friends. But i wouldnt expect her to call just for no reason like that.

[Herrmannek]

If you want strong and stable relationship buy a dog!!

[EvanL]

Got a dog.. But im out of peanut butter

[PCarola]

Don't take life too serious, bro. You're still young.

[Herrmannek]

Got a dog.. But im out of peanut butter

:cantbeli: , damn next crypto-swede... relationship doesn't equals ****** intercurse, for that you need a hooker... Sum it up and you will see that dog and hookers are chepear than girlfriend....

[PCarola]

, damn next crypto-swede... relationship doesn't equals ****** intercurse, for that you need a hooker... Sum it up and you will see that dog and hookers are chepear than girlfriend....

:lol: :lol: :lol:

[EvanL]

Im just asking myself, why she called. I guess i just have a wish that she wants back together.. DOubt it though.

[Midtown]

Got a dog.. But im out of peanut butter

hahahahaha, Try using honey.

[Tranceaddict]

Im just asking myself, why she called. I guess i just have a wish that she wants back together.. DOubt it though.

Im not sure she knew what she wanted at the time. Maybe she thought that a breakup was what she wanted. But what I've found is that sometimes they arent even sure why they do certain things. Talk it over with her, dont make it awkward, cause thats only gonna hurt you. Have a direct conversation. Figure out what you want and need man, if its to get back together, then go for it. Otherwise, if you've had enough pain, then maybe its time to move on

[MEGR]

It's a trap!

[FallenAngel]

I'm in the same position Evan....my ex called me too and had absolutely nothing to say.

Women...can't live with em, can't kill em ;)

[Herrmannek]

Just buy puppy and walk it in front of some university or other full of female place.... Lots of women guaranted... Going to vet clinics also works, there is no better catch than sick dogy. And remember to take sick one from shelter not to hurt healthy ones.

On the side not I must say that female vets are very atractive...

[memphiz]

Take a **** on her door step

[Trigger]

She called to tell you she actually left you for Seoulstriker, but she couldn't find the right words... p-)

[ronin2172]

she already left u once....don't let it be twice....then u will really feel dumb..

[FRO]

Hi Evan. Just a few thoughts, all my opinion. Take it or leave it as you see fit. This is meant as honest advice without sarcasm or insinuation.

I would like to suggest that you read absolutely nothing into the phone call. Even if she meant something by it, I honestly don't think that the odds are in your favour that you can rebuild anything or that you even really should. You broke up for a reason--I assume. Remember that reason. Unless the underlying cause of the break-up is remedied, there is no point in pursuing it further.

Also, one thing to remember is if the two of you were together for a while, she may miss you but that doesn't mean she loves you or wants to get back together with you. We become accustomed to sharing with another and when that other departs, sometimes the need is simply to fill that void. In my humble opinion, that's not a good reason to consider getting back together. I mean is it you she wants back, or maybe the "you" she remembers, or maybe even just someone?

As for remaining friends, I think it is an admirable sentiment, but I believe it takes time. The wound is still fresh. Give it time to heal. I had ex-girlfriends when I was in school that used to call me up to chat and ask advice about current interests, but that was many months after our break-ups. I also had girlfriends that shared my social circle, so we were friends in the sense of hanging out together. I think it's possible, but I would suggest caution and patience.

I hope this helps. It's a crappy, confusing time, but don't give in. You will heal and will be stronger for it. At that time, you can offer your friendship, but doing so before puts you and any friendship you might build with your ex in peril.

Just my opinion. Take care.

[Midtown]

I think shes ****ing with you, email a brick thru her front window.

[perdurabo]

just **** her best friend :lol: