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Gauntlet
10-15-2005, 01:01 PM
http://www.int.iol.co.za/index.php?newslett=1&click_id=79&art_id=vn20051014064916200C120193&set_id=1


Stockholm - A Swedish man who donated his sperm to a lesbian couple must pay child support for the three boys he fathered, the Supreme Court has ruled.

The man, now 39, gave his sperm to the couple in the early 1990s. Three sons were born in the years 1992 to 1996.

He agreed he would play no role in the boys' upbringing, but signed a document saying he was the father. The women separated and the biological mother demanded that the man pay child support. The man went to the district and appeals courts, but lost. The Supreme Court upheld these rulings. - Sapa-AFP


These women have earned the glorious title of "Alpha Bitch"

Argyll
10-15-2005, 01:04 PM
No sh*t,that seriously fcuked up,sod that!!

Conga
10-15-2005, 01:08 PM
what a bitch, that makes me never wanna watch lesbian **** again.


uh, wait...

Hydro
10-15-2005, 01:09 PM
That's just wrong...How dare she?

Bringing up the kids with her "life partner" as their own, then when it all goes **** up, she's quick enough to grab his money...Whats even more screwed is the fact the courts upheld her claim!!!!

Dalleer
10-15-2005, 01:10 PM
I've heard of similar cases before myself. It is pretty freakin' messed up to do something like this to the donor.

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 01:12 PM
I don't know what the whole circumstances are in this case, but I don't think couples (gay or not) should be allowed to adopt children unless they are going to both be legally responsible for the child regardless of the outcome of their relationship.

I'm speculating that the lesbian partner that was not biologically linked to the baby bailed on her former partner altogether and then, out of sheer financial desperation, the mother sued the sperm donor. I'd be interested to know if she tried to sue her partner for child support first.

Stavka
10-15-2005, 01:26 PM
This **** is just brilliant. Good luck getting donors now for normal couples that cant afford adoption and where the male has bad sperms. Brilliant ****.

zonk
10-15-2005, 01:35 PM
thats rediculous man

Stormy
10-15-2005, 01:53 PM
He got screwed. He could kiss his pay checks good bye.

Lexi
10-15-2005, 01:54 PM
That just sucks.

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 02:03 PM
I suppose the moral of the story is --- keep your sperm to yourself lest you be willing to take a life time of responsiblity on.

While I understand the need some have to raise a biological child, there are enough abandoned children in the world waiting to be adopted as it is.

zonk
10-15-2005, 02:04 PM
thats very true, i dont plan on being a donor unless a contract is written and it clarifies that if the two break up then its the other spouse not myself that will have to pay the child support

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 02:12 PM
thats very true, i dont plan on being a donor unless a contract is written and it clarifies that if the two break up then its the other spouse not myself that will have to pay the child support
I'm not sure that would even hold up in court. I'm fairly certain I read of a guy losing in court despite an agreement like that. Wish I could rememeber where I read it. Though it may not have been an agreement prepared by lawyers.

Luno
10-15-2005, 02:19 PM
Wow that is old news :|
Welcome to last year p-)

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 02:22 PM
http://users.myexcel.com/metromonte/wayback.jpg

Tomorrow we are visiting 1857 in our wayback machine.

Bryson C
10-15-2005, 02:24 PM
That is totaly screwed up. :bash:

sergey31
10-15-2005, 03:35 PM
Note to self: Need to find another type of supplemental income, or just falsify name on application (yah, that should work).

2Sheds_Jackson
10-15-2005, 04:17 PM
I suppose the moral of the story is --- keep your sperm to yourself lest you be willing to take a life time of responsiblity on.

While I understand the need some have to raise a biological child, there are enough abandoned children in the world waiting to be adopted as it is.

I agree. The basic facts are that he supplied 1/2 of the genetic material to produce another human being, and bears responsibility for the resulting human(s), regardless of whatever silly contract they made up. His sperm was not used to make jams or jellies - it made several children that need food, clothes, and rent for 18 years. That money he is paying is not for the woman involved, it's to provide for the children he made. Contrary to what some would like to believe (including this woman and man) -children are not an accessory like a handbag.

Midav
10-15-2005, 04:19 PM
That's messed up.

Hydro
10-15-2005, 04:19 PM
His sperm was not used to make jams or jellies

I see a **** niche...

MARINO
10-15-2005, 04:21 PM
****ien lesbian that's why the can't be parents or mothers or ........ help :lol:

zonk
10-15-2005, 04:26 PM
of thats how the carpet munchers are going to act, i am going to make sure only my wife has my kids

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 04:35 PM
Total speculation, but the mother probably did need financial help. I'd rather her go back to the father than get government assistance (which the rest of us pay for).

I'd bet money her lawyer told her she had no legal recourse against her former life partner because they probably made a personal arrangment with this man for his sperm in order to get around gay marriage and/or adoption laws. The other woman was likely able to walk away from the child because there were no legal or biological ties to the child.

In other words, this guy screwed himself by 1] taking pitty on them and helping OR 2] trying to make a profit off his sperm or 3] needed to get laid. Whatever his motivation was..... he didn't think it through.

Be responsible for your own sperm.

Teufel_
10-15-2005, 04:45 PM
thats europe for you.

Bryson C
10-15-2005, 05:25 PM
Note to self: Don't give sperm to lesbo's.

zonk
10-15-2005, 06:35 PM
man i still am in denial abouthow bad he got j*wed

2Sheds_Jackson
10-15-2005, 06:56 PM
Be responsible for your own sperm.

That's why I individually label mine, and keep them in a ziplock bag. You can't be too careful. I once impregnated a table lamp by accident.

James
10-15-2005, 07:10 PM
Next thing you know some man is going to be convicted of abuse or something for masturbating and ending the potential lives of many children...

bloddyaxe
10-15-2005, 07:13 PM
Either there is something wrong with Swedish laws, or Sweden needs to clean its surpreme court...

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 07:23 PM
Next thing you know some man is going to be convicted of abuse or something for masturbating and ending the potential lives of many children...


*taking notes for next Women Rule The World meeting*

Hydro
10-15-2005, 09:47 PM
That's why I individually label mine, and keep them in a ziplock bag. You can't be too careful. I once impregnated a table lamp by accident.



It's good to hear someone else practices this sound idea. To cut a long story short, I had to force the toaster to get an abortion once...

Hot Lips
10-15-2005, 10:02 PM
I bet the other appliances are on to your game.

Gauntlet
10-15-2005, 10:04 PM
I bet the other appliances are on to your game.

I'd watch out for the food processor.

Hydro
10-15-2005, 10:06 PM
The kettle has been eyeing me shiftily actually...I think it knows. I haven't bought it any new dresses lately, getting suspicious.

zonk
10-15-2005, 10:11 PM
dont trust them they are communist spies from russia

molly747
10-15-2005, 11:28 PM
Next thing you know some man is going to be convicted of abuse or something for masturbating and ending the potential lives of many children...

Have you ever seen Legally Blonde?? ;) I know I have.

Gauntlet
10-16-2005, 01:05 AM
Have you ever seen Legally Blonde?? ;) I know I have.

Don't get any ideas. You sue guys for touching ourselves. We'll sue girls for having periods for wasting a potential child and domestic violence.

Violet Fashion by Mindy
10-16-2005, 01:12 AM
God dam leftwing biker dykes.

zonk
10-16-2005, 01:28 AM
id call them business women

Thor
10-16-2005, 01:57 AM
thats very true, i dont plan on being a donor unless a contract is written and it clarifies that if the two break up then its the other spouse not myself that will have to pay the child support
That's what the court established here; you can't make such a contract. In don't know about the US though...

zonk
10-16-2005, 10:42 AM
damn now people look at sperm like a paycheck....sad