Need you guys help

[ShotOver]

Ok.

Here is ze story, i knew this girl for 3 years, on and off relationship the whole time. But last week, she got a boyfriend, and replaced lil ol me (He got a red BMW, how can i compete with that) and yeah, i told her to **** off, blocked and deleted from msn.. etc. Then i went and got another senior ball date (Like your prom) so thats alrite. And im talking to alot of other girls, having fun.

But, no matter what i do, everyday she pops into my head. And even though she dun love or even like me no more, i can't help missing her, im always wondering if shes alrite, or if she is happy. She was my first love, they say its the hardest to get over. And i want to get over her more than anything in the world... but it's very, very hard.

Any of you guys got any advice? that can help me get over her, and get her out of my mind.

Really appreciate anything.

[Jack Mehoff]

Suck it up and drive on. Bitches like that don't deserve any of your time. If I were you, I would upload all her dirty little secrets and naked pictures in my personal web page for the world to see. That will show her that don't ever mess with a computer geek. *evil grin*

[budanski]

Really appreciate anything.

Nothing says i miss you more than an Aimpoint Reflex Sight.

Seriously though, you really want to ask these monkeys advice about your love life? Well, the only thing this monkey have found out that worked over the years is time. You'll eventually move on.

[Jack Mehoff]

Your ex-girl friend is not the only female with a vulva in Australia. Shut off your computer and try to find another girl in the real world.

Budanski, who are you calling monkeys?

[16 OBr SpN]

OK here are some advices from an old fart like me: ;)

1) NEVER feel regret about something that you've done!
2) Be patient. Don't go up to her, or call, or try to meet her on your own initiative, after you've done it, otherwise she'll think that you're weak. Basically don't show your feelings.
3) That "red BMW" is nothing!! Believe me! If you think she went after his car, then you should be GLAD that she's not with you!! ;)
4) You say 3 years. After 3 years, she still couldn't make her mind up?? Then maybe it's not meant to be! Have you thought about it?
5) Most importantly, enjoy what you have right now! In our search for love we sometimes overlook that the people who care about us are right there next to us!

Of course that's my opinion.

Regards,
16 OBr SpN

[Flagg]

What you'll regret is wasting time crying over her

My recommendation:

Be a man, movie on, quit your blubbering, put down the donuts, get off the frickin sofa, get yourself in shape, get a girl your friends with to sort out your sorry wardrobe, and find another hottie.

And some day...if you're really lucky, you'll run into your ex....you'll be looking like Jack the Pimp...and she'll be really frickin fat

[Herrmannek]

Kick guy's ass by dueling with him, even girl will not came back to u or u don't wan her back, you will have deserved satisfaction :)

[ßå$tĮТHÏ¿ð]

Wow 16 OBr the "love doctor"...maybe we can call you the "GRU of love" ;) (joking)

Theres been a couple good points already made (no not the one about asking for relationship advice on a forum ;) ).

First of all three years and it being "on and off" is an obvious red flag for me right there. Three years is alot of time in a persons life, especially when your a young prick like myself. If you both cant decide what you want within a three year time period, maybe its for the best.

Besides her dating a dude with a red BMW just goes to show how much of a "tire biter" she is. You can compete with that, you can find alot better girl to date.

Everything sorts out with time, and time is definately on your side. Just keep yourself occupied, go out and be in public and most of all look for other girls! The day you stop looking....well....you could end up like that forum member that was a metro******...what was his name again?

The Bastardchild

[budanski]

Budanski, who are you calling monkeys?

You guys...

http://img3.imageshack.us/img3/7126/militaryphotofamily.jpg

[ShotOver]

Cheers fellas.

You seem to think im just a net geek, haha. I got out like everynight, school holidays just sit here on the PC. I got nothin to do at the moment, so im on the computer, and gettin ready to go out tonight.

Yeah, she really was a bitch, eh.

And for your information, i never shed 1 tear, so there.

hahah.

*Starts to cowboy up*

[ßå$tĮТHÏ¿ð]

Thats the spirit dude woot

Now call her and tell her her older sister is hotter..joking rofl

[ShotOver]

I've chatting up her cousin... :)

I just needed a broader range of info, the help my mates gave me was alrite, just wanted to know what you blokes do.

[Flagg]

Now you're on to it:

bang her cousin, she'll like that ;)

[ShotOver]

Any of your blokes been through the same kinda ****? or somthin similar?

[Marmot1]

Any of your blokes been through the same kinda ****? or somthin similar?

Yeah once or twice but all you need to do is to find other one ASAP and do not try to call her... and banging cousin/sister is also a good idea (REVANGE) I one banged one ex girlfriend sister and half a year later her sister in law :-) to this day I feel proud of that... and she don't know probably about that rofl

[Fintin]

poety and music...write both read both listen to both.....works well.....that or burn her house down....that works well also

[Hullebullen]

Your ex-girl friend is not the only female with a vulva in Australia. Shut off your computer and try to find another girl in the real world.


Hehe...Jack said vulva, hehe...

Yeah, soldier on...you're a young buck, right? 18-19? There's much more to be seen in life...



...such as this...

http://www.calastrology.com/gaylovespells.html


It was one of those Google adds...thought it was pretty funny :D

[FRO]

Any of your blokes been through the same kinda ****? or somthin similar?

I dated a girl for two years--our last year in high school and her first year of university. I even remained loyal to her while backpacking through Europe and meeting some very fine and friendly women. Things started going bad when I started in university--her second year as I had spent that year working and travelling. Finally, after a few months, the story came out that she didn't have the same penchant for loyalty that I had. In fact, she had an opposite penchant altogether.

I was shattered, desolate and it took quite a long time to get over her. End of story? I've been married for five years to a beautiful and intelligent wife. I've travelled across Europe, Canada and much of Asia. I have a good paying job that also allows me more opportunity to travel. Things could not be better. Her? Twice divorced. That's all I know.

Bottom line: nothing we can do can make you feel any better. Time will. My advice is to ignore any and all inclinations to get back together. Suck it up, soldier on and live well with the knowledge that in time, you'll look back on this moment with wistful nostalgia and little else.

Trust me on this one. It's one of the few things I really know.

[ShotOver]

haha, good advice mates.

Cheers :D

I'm heading out tonight to another party, 3 days in a row... :)

[Hullebullen]

haha, good advice mates.

Cheers :D

I'm heading out tonight to another party, 3 days in a row... :)


Oh, those days are long gone...I'm just happy to last an entire evening nowadays... ;)

[Truthsayer]

I was told by a female friend that a woman knows within 30 minutes if they will sleep with a guy they meet.

I think it's quite accurate, since both my wife and 'the woman before that' was something I knew was right (at the time! ;) ) within hours of meeting, and the same for them.

When transcending from a youth to an adult I learnt that there is no point in being 'inlove and slowly progressing from friend to something more in her eyes' by being nice or washing her car. If you know what you feel you move in 'for the kill' right away. Wasting time will only do that, waste time...and up the chance of the subject to find someone that acctually shows her his feelings.

If it went on for 3 years, it probably meant she liked you as a safety-net, but didn't consider you any 'marrige-material'. Sorry to say so. :|

[Fintin]

i got dumped 6 months ago by the girl i was sure i was going to marry...had the whole giving her the ring already worked out and everything, we dated 2 years...the pain goes away, slowly, but it does....i would recomend listening to Brand New....great band.....all their stuff is about hating the girl who just tore your heart out....thank God for music

[ShotOver]

30 minutes? ****, if only i knew that before. haha.

Yeah, thank god for music, can't live without it.