What do you do?

What do you do if you suspect someone in your family cheating?

[UkrainianAmerican]

Cover it up, and pretend like you dont know anything.
Hey, beats a messy divorce.

[hank]

What do you do if you suspect someone in your family cheating?

Need more info. Who are they cheating on? Do you mean cheating like in sleeping around?

hank

[Vance]

Cheating on that damn math test. :bash:

[cut]

talk to that person about it

[flickme]

I would avoid that person as much as possible and pretend like you dont know anything. But hey, thats just me. ;)

What do you do if you suspect someone in your family cheating?

Need more info. Who are they cheating on? Do you mean cheating like in sleeping around?

hank

yeah, I suspect my dad cheating on my mom, I'm hearing him talk on the phone with a whisper, I hear "I love you" "My love" and all that stuff, I even hear him making kissing sounds, my dad never does that, it's such a shocker. I really think he might be cheating, don't know if I should tell my mom....

[hank]

Cheating on that damn math test. :bash:

In that case, I suggest that you both dress up in smiley face costumes and hit the cheating smiley face on the head with a curvy stick until stars fly out of his head and his eyes spin around.

Seriously, are we talking about your dad or mom? If so that is a a ****ty awful situation to be in. If that is your situation then I think all your choices of things to do are bad. Good luck man. I would probably not talk about that with my parents, but I was never in that situation so I don't know. (At least I didn't know about it if I was).

hank

[Wilco]

Woh, never tell the mom, unless it gets REAL bad.


If you have the balls, bring it up with your dad, and if you can hold your ground, your set. A battle will be waged, just come out as the victor.

[farmgirl]

If you talk to anyone... it should be your dad first. I wouldn't say anything to your mom unless you are absolutely certain of the situation. There is no sense upsetting her, until you know what is actually happening.

If you talk to anyone... it should be your dad first. I wouldn't say anything to your mom unless you are absolutely certain of the situation. There is no sense upsetting her, until you know what is actually happening.

thanks

[memphiz]

Blakmail him.



seriously:
dont tell your mom, it would break her heart. even if its a suspision, definitly talk to your dad. dont mention it to any one else in your family, it could turn your family upside down

[hank]

What do you do if you suspect someone in your family cheating?

Need more info. Who are they cheating on? Do you mean cheating like in sleeping around?

hank

yeah, I suspect my dad cheating on my mom, I'm hearing him talk on the phone with a whisper, I hear "I love you" "My love" and all that stuff, I even hear him making kissing sounds, my dad never does that, it's such a shocker. I really think he might be cheating, don't know if I should tell my mom....

Sorry man, I did not mean to make light of your current predicament. That is a tough one. Only you know your relationship with your Dad, but if I suspected my Dad was cheating on his current wife # 4 I'd smack him. Keep in mind that I'm 33 and we have that type of relationship. When I ws younger I probably would not have said anything.

With the benefit of hindsight I can say that you should talk to him. That is easy for me to say b/c I'm not there and I won't be the one doing the talking. Generally, open and honest is always best, but you already know that. Its hard to do and I don't envy you having to have that conversation. Try to pick a spot or time when the chances for a good conversation are best. Not late at night or when he is feeling stress. If you guys do stuff on weekends or something like that might work. Definitely don't be threatenting or try to "out" him - that will probably not work.

Keep the faith, things always get better.

hank

[ßå$tĮТHÏ¿ð]

Ya thats definately a sticky situation. My best bet is first confront your dad on it, just get him outta the house and tell him you need to talk. From there depending on what he says is your call, but I feel for ya dude :petting: :hug:

[Jack Mehoff]

I'll pimpslap my dad if he cheats on my mom. :slap:

[American Patriot]

Perhaps this has been mentioned before but maybe you can tell your mom to 'put out' more?

Men have needs, you know.

thanks for the advice guys, everything is good now, not what I thought it was but everything is cool now. I was going to talk to my mom about it, but I talked to my dad and it was hard. really appreciate it :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[hank]

Perhaps this has been mentioned before but maybe you can tell your mom to 'put out' more?

Men have needs, you know.

Helpful. Since we're talking about Mom's putting out, yours has been holding out on me lately, what's the deal?

hank

[farmgirl]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;) Let a guy in the new father's club...... and you see what happens! p-)

[hank]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;)

Well if you want to act like a knucklehead I figure you should get treated likea knucklehead. I'd expect nothing less if I posted something dumb like that. ;)

hank

[farmgirl]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;)

Well if you want to act like a knucklehead I figure you should get treated likea knucklehead. I'd expect nothing less if I posted something dumb like that. ;)

hank


Hey... I didn't say it wasn't well done... or well deserved..... ;)

[hank]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;) Let a guy in the pimp club...... and you see what happens! p-)

Man I really need to read the entire post before I respond. Please see rules # 1-4 before typing the words "pimp club" again. Don't make me amend the rules.

hank

[farmgirl]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;) Let a guy in the new father's club...... and you see what happens! p-)

Man I really need to read the entire post before I respond. Please see rules # 1-4 before typing the words "pimp club" again. Don't make me amend the rules.

hank


ooopsss... please read corrected post.... ;)

[hank]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;) Let a guy in the new father's club...... and you see what happens! p-)

Man I really need to read the entire post before I respond. Please see rules # 1-4 before typing the words "pimp club" again. Don't make me amend the rules.

hank


ooopsss... please read corrected post.... ;)

You're in. No amendments necessary.

hank

p-)

[usa320]

The way i would deal with this, is get several jobs...spend all day at school... Save up a ****load of money. rent an apartment. Move the **** out. Then watch the messiness.

[mocking_loudly_died]

Go postal.

That's the American dream.

[Vance]

Go postal.

That's the American dream.
Faaack.

[Tengu]

Keep it to myself.

[spectre5]

I think I would kick my dads ass _very_ hard. :bash:
Then I would go talk to the harp he is seeing, and tell her the facts.

I wouldn't tell my mom in any case.

[Midtown]

INVESTIGATE FURTHER. Call up the phone company, get the numbers of the incomming and outgoing phone calls. Find out what her number is deducting by the time you heard him say it. Find out who she is. Go over there and confront like a mother ****. Your dad will find out you know thru her, and will be on total eggshells around you. Thus upper hand acheived.

[chauncy republicans]

Perhaps this has been mentioned before but maybe you can tell your mom to 'put out' more?

Men have needs, you know.

Helpful. Since we're talking about Mom's putting out, yours has been holding out on me lately, what's the deal?

hank
LMFAO nice one man.

[Sierra]

i go to school :|

[Caraway]

What do you do if you suspect someone in your family cheating? Well, I would not bring my personal things in here. At least not THAT personal things. Otherwise, I'd go postal on my family (that's the american dream). :cantbeli:

[Trigger]

I'd call the local hip-hop radio station and let them in on it.

[Wilco]

Hell, we have listed all the other reasons except the "Spec OP" style:

Find out what the number is, track it, go to her house, break in, glue yourself to the cieling and sneak into her room, then go into her shower and wa-----eh.....

Sorry folks.....

Glad you got everything figured out man ;)

[memphiz]

Damn, Hank... you're all full of smack tonight aren't you??? ;) Let a guy in the new father's club...... and you see what happens! p-)

Man I really need to read the entire post before I respond. Please see rules # 1-4 before typing the words "pimp club" again. Don't make me amend the rules.

hank


ooopsss... please read corrected post.... ;)

You're in. No amendments necessary.

hank
psst...can girls be PIMP's ill have to redraw my drawing