Don't be. It's just an irrational fear. Girls are nervous too, and they don't want to date a nervous guy. Trust me, you want a girl you can be yourself around. One you can crazy ***** too. I can say some pretty ridiculous/perverted ***** to my girlfriend and she just laughs about it and cracks sick jokes too. **** all that polite *****. You should be able to talk to her like you would one of your best guy friends. That is, if you're really considering being with this person long-term. Not that you shouldn't be a gentleman or anything, but you should definitely be able to say what you want to her and have her complete respect. That's really the kind of stuff that makes too people close. Being one of those "yes dear" pussies doesn't work, girls will trample you. It's not even that they want to most times, it's just how they react to guys being bigger b!tches than they are.
Buncha dumb hoes? That was my biggest problem with okcupid. I went on a few dates with some crazy broads. I went to meet this girl who on her okcupid account looked pretty attractive, but in reality was a big ol' fatty. Belly hanging out and wearing basketball shorts with her crack showing. I saw her, pulled into the apartment and then realized this was her, just not photoshopped and wearing no makeup. I drove up and she was like "are you John?" and I was like "no" and drove off. It was so ****ing awful, dude. On the other hand, I met my last girlfriend who was this fine lookin' Pakistani who was a total 10/10. I mean like, dating her was like hitting the jackpot. Now I got a sexy blonde girlfriend who'll cook for me and I can play Black Ops with. You really can't lose on okcupid, it's just a numbers game. The more chances you take and the better at it you get, the more chances you have. And I'd say it probably gives you the most avenues to single girls who live in your area.
Ah I know that feel, the bills just shock you really
Its amazing what an ambulance ride costs...
Nah, just frustrated at the job and such. I got a ton of medical bills hanging over me.
Oh by the way, it rated us as 52% percent compatible. Buncha BS. You just gotta take chances. I remember the first thing I messaged her was "holy *****, you play Call of Duty?!".
If you live in the US, just get on okcupid.com. I thought it was a stupid idea at first, but I didn't have any better ideas for meeting women. It's basically the Facebook of dating. You answer a ton of questions and they match you up by percentages. I think the rating was a bit skewed because I answered like 10 times more questions than she did. I'm not the kind of dude to go pick up chicks at a bar because they're usually a bunch of classless whores.
Ya gotta open up a bit. You got nothing to lose. If she's not interested, on to the next one. I just made an account on that website and messaged like 10 girls a day and after a few days I had a bunch of dates planned. It's not like the girl is gonna know you're messaging other girls, so again, nothing to lose.
I think my boy Dean can help you make sense of your lack of openness.
Yeah, she's pretty ****in' awesome. I met her on a free dating site, actually. haha. She went to the high school right next to mine and stuff and we live in the same area. I don't get out much and I've kind of burned through all the chicks I already know so I had to explore other avenues.
You said you're a secretive dude. Don't keep things you think girls will like hidden, that defeats the whole purpose.
"Maybe girls like people who are open, yet give off the perception of being 'troubled', hence secret? I dunno."
Kinda, sorta. My girlfriend knows I've got some skeleton's in my closet so to speak and she likes hearing about it. I do keep things like that to myself, usually. I guess it just makes us that much closer. We are best friend's after all.
Sí. Finally someone got it. You going to go see it?
Hehe go for it! I don't know about the salary where you live. But I just showed up and talked to the vice-principal (very nice man indeed) he got my contact informations. And two days later they called me at 0705 at told me to show up at 0745. :) I've got a whole bunch og lessons next week = $$$
I'm not a real teacher, I'm just some guy with a highschool diploma they call on, when the real teachers are sick.
Yes I often get the urge to yell and order them to do push-ups. But the salary of ~ 40$ pr. hour, helps keeping a cool head haha :D
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