True, I just can't stand their mindset. I feel that they deliberatly keep themself in those situations, jus tso they have something to whine about. :S
I've been there. I kept moaning and whining, but never undertook anything out of some reason I couldn't explain.
Then I grabbed and squeezed my balls to wake up, and I met some girls, and I'm currently dating one (but I'm not sure I gonna stay with her... already feeling the need to run after other skirts, hehehe)
To my utter shame : my first time was at 23, with a married woman, while her husband was taking pictures. I wasn't proud...