Yeah sure, like the probability of Sweden being in danger of being attacked in the near future is something to be concerned about.
You never know. Maybe their police overreacts in Malmö's Rosengarden (or not, but 'activists' tweet so) and the international community demands Sweden to talk with these freedom fighters instead of massacring them. Sweden denies and Kungen refuses to apologise. Then it is time for a UN no fly-zone, guns and other support for the islamist freedom fighters and Sweden is in de facto civil war. Now Norway attacks lappland to reserve for themselves oppressing their sami people too and Finland invades to form a buffer zone to protect our people in Sweden. Bosnians want Lindköping for their free independent city-state and Poland wants to get even on hundreds years old grievances...
I agree with your first point. Regarding NATO it’s a bit more tricky.On your last point Sweden doesn’t pretend to be neutral and haven’t for quite some time.
Your newspapers have often given me the other impression, but I am aware they are notoriously left wing PC. Sprewing bile about the US, Israel and Denmark has been something of a hobby for many a columnist on Aftonbladet, I think.