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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    Get real.

    Do you really think somebody who has had gender identity issues their entire life, and is now a female is really really going to cause problems?

    Are you suggesting all of these people are freakazoid perverts? Maybe you should look at yourself before generalising such people.
    I don't think he was generalizing but rather talking about the exception, the minority. Men have done some pretty radical things to mess with women in public restrooms.

    It wouldn't be happening every day, but I doubt it impossible that a ****** predator wouldn't dress in drag to do this. There was a creep in here in the US that hid in the bottom of the rest stop toilets along the highway so he could peer up at them. Hey! Why don't we just give these creeps a legal means to enter the womens latrine? Now that's an idea.

    BTW, the article is about letting trangender without gender reassignment surgery in, not what you said.
    ...an anatomically male student who identifies as a woman.

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    I don't differentiate between a female, a chick with a **** or a bloke. If they are all act, think and regard themselves as females then so be it. It is their life, their choices.

    Out of all the ****** attacks. How many can actually be attributed to trans****** or trans-gendered person?

    It's really offensive to these people to lump them in as perverts. It's bas enough how society in general treats them, let alone basically accusing them of being perverted ****s who attack women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    Get real.

    Do you really think somebody who has had gender identity issues their entire life, and is now a female is really really going to cause problems?

    Are you suggesting all of these people are freakazoid perverts? Maybe you should look at yourself before generalising such people.
    Get real yourself, you dont think some straight guy wouldn't use this as an excuse to be in a womens restroom for purposes other than intended? all you gotta do is say your pre op and bring in a camera or try to find a drunk to closet up in a stall and bang. Predators wont say Oh damn, cant go in there as I'm not transgendered?


    And what happens should a Male using facilities gets accused of misconduct? in US Colleges its guilty until proven Innocent.

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    This is simply fear mongering nothing more, nothing less.

    Show me how many times a transgendered person has been convicted of an offence to which you are worried about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    It's really offensive to these people to lump them in as perverts. It's bas enough how society in general treats them, let alone basically accusing them of being perverted ****s who attack women.
    About attacking women I'd agree, it's not that such folks would assault and stuff. But being a male and thinking you're biologically a female is quite.. well.. perverted to say the least.
    I was under the impression restrooms were for biological purposes, not for philosophical, life-aspect analysis.

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    Why is it perverted?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    I don't differentiate between a female, a chick with a **** or a bloke. If they are all act, think and regard themselves as females then so be it. It is their life, their choices.

    Out of all the ****** attacks. How many can actually be attributed to trans****** or trans-gendered person?

    It's really offensive to these people to lump them in as perverts. It's bas enough how society in general treats them, let alone basically accusing them of being perverted ****s who attack women.
    If that one just happens to be your wife you might care. Forget that, I honestly dont want dirty old men like this guy in the restroom with my wife or daughter! I don't want someone's six year old girl to see his junk swinging!
    Quote Originally Posted by TheEvian100 View Post
    I was under the impression restrooms were for biological purposes, not for philosophical, life-aspect analysis.
    ^^^Me too?



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    Quote Originally Posted by LineDoggie View Post
    Get real yourself, you dont think some straight guy wouldn't use this as an excuse to be in a womens restroom for purposes other than intended? all you gotta do is say your pre op and bring in a camera or try to find a drunk to closet up in a stall and bang. Predators wont say Oh damn, cant go in there as I'm not transgendered?

    And what happens should a Male using facilities gets accused of misconduct? in US Colleges its guilty until proven Innocent.
    I don't think predators feel like they need an excuse to go into the wrong bathroom to stalk someone out.

    Not allowing transgender people to use the bathroom they feel more comfortable with is not making the world any safer for women.

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    @MeinTeil

    That's a gross generalisation and you know it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheEvian100 View Post
    That's madness. Gender is not and should not be a state of mind. It's all about anatomy.
    A smart way the uni could have addressed the issue is through a few unisex restrooms.
    Gender is a social construction.

    Your sex on another hand is mother nature given.


    I really see no problem.

    I go to the restroom to satisfy my bodily functions.

    I don't talk or make eye contact to anyone.

    I want to spend as little time as possible there.



    It's not like he will be waving his dick around anyway.

    Making a mountain out of a mole hill.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    Why is it perverted?
    Because of Biology I guess. Remember we're talking about public ladies rooms here.

    Quote Originally Posted by SkyUS View Post
    Gender is a social construction.

    Your sex on another hand is mother nature given.
    I didn't know that gender was a social thing. I guess that's why all the confusion.
    So a toilet has something to do with sεx or gender?

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    And what does that have to do with whether a person is perverted or not?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LineDoggie View Post
    And what happens should a Male using facilities gets accused of misconduct? in US Colleges its guilty until proven Innocent.
    Men should worry more about taking women back to their place after a drunken night out than worrying about the possibility of being accused of doing something wrong in a unisex bathroom. We heard of those date-rape stories. Maybe we should ban alcohol in bars now to prevent future false accusations? People are accustomed to using stereotypes and wild assumptions without any data backing up their beliefs. Of all the thousands of rapes occurring on college campuses across the country, I've yet to hear of a trend/pattern where jocks dress up as trannies to trick women in bathrooms. A lot of trans people do not get reassignment surgery ever in their lifetime because of access and financial constraints. Male to female trans are (generally?) attracted to hetero males....at least the trans women I know are dating straight/bi males. And perving in bathrooms is already illegal. If sickos are doing that now, then we can't blame gender neutral bathroom proposals.

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    One of the dorms at Lewis & Clark had unisex bathrooms 25 years ago.... This was for everyone, not just for those with gender identity issues. So I guess I'm kind of ho hum on the issue.

    It is interesting though, to try to have a rule that allows full inclusiveness and still be able to have zero tolerance for bad misbehavior. Like LD was saying, males in the current PC environment are guilty until proven innocent. This makes it inherently dangerous for any male (anatomically) to assert his right to use whatever bathroom he feels comfortable in. I guess it would be a good thing to have gender free bathroom policies explicitly stated, so that there will be no misunderstandings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Violet Fashion by Mindy View Post
    @MeinTeil

    That's a gross generalisation and you know it.
    It's not a generalization and it won't be even if you say I'm generalizing a hundred times over. You're twisting words Min. I didn't day all and neither did any of the others that don't agree with this. You can't say every single dude that feels he's a lady will act appropriately 100% of the time everywhere. There are people like that guy I posted the picture of and much worse out there. Even if they are less that 1/10 of a percent of the tranny population I don't want them in the restroom with my wife and kids! I'm sure there is a large segment of women that don't care for the idea either, do you give a crap about their feelings Min?

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