T3ngu and Zorro's Love Child
getting up at 4am for a 1000km drive and 4 days camping/kayaking/fishing for saratoga.
Sorry to hear, Wilco. Been through that fire.
Not True Blue
Originally Posted by WarToad
Thanks brother. A lot of things on her side but I will admit I'm sure the way I acted and dealt with some circumstances didn't help. At the same time the measures she took were a bit out of line.
My only advise is keep it as amicable as possible. If she wants stuff, let her have it. They can be replaced. It'll make the process shorter, faster, and cheaper from a legal bill point of view. I took it as an opportunity to unburden myself, downsize, lighten my load. Wasn't fun, but it oddly enough did lead to a good place. An older wiser you can reboot to Life v2.0.
I second that thought: Keep it amicable and friendly, if at all possible.
I know several ex-couples who fight over money issues all the time. At the very best, it leads to animosity and spoiling of the kids by competing at buying those children gifts and "better experiences than what the ex provides". At the worst, they spend all their extra money on attorneys' fees.
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