in that case id better kiss the wifes ass cause i want mine to look like that
No need to.
You have to mess with the configuration of your OFP first.
Go to the OFP Folder and look for the FlashpointPreferences.
Go to textures and jack everything up if it isn't already.
Then go to your desktop, right click, change all of your graphic settings to High/Quality (6800 should be able to handle it, my X600 does).
Go ingame and then to options/video and run it on 1280-1024. Adjust the Terrain to High if you want and set the veiwing distance to 800-900.
If it lags a bit, turn down the terrain to Normal and the veiw distance down.
Then, go to www.ofp.info and search for "FFUR" and download the 2005 pack. It will replace practically everything in the game if you already haven't downloaded it. Much better sound effects/explosions/effects and takes the best OFP created addons and puts them to good use. You can play the campaign with the new addons without having to replace anything.
Not sure if you're an experiences OFPer or not, so I'm spreading the wealth .